The Dapper Gentleman
THE TASK AT HAND
Over the course of many years, maen have become a group which is more focused on sexual conquests and six pack abs than the confidence, pride, skills, and virtues great men of the past used to embody. A meaningful note has become a mass produced E-Card. The pride of knowing a skill has turned into "where can I find something or someone to do this for me". Men have felt the need to suppress the great style and ethics of men before them. Given the poor example men have today, it can be a difficult task to navigate the world and re-gain roots in being a true gentleman.
It can be a daunting task to try and rebuild and redefine what society sees men to be, but a worthwhile one. What should be worn on a casual date, at work, or at a black tie event? How do I get noticed by others and gain respect? These are all questions that need answers for a young generation of men. It is easy simply given "quick fixes" to these questions, but the difficulty is making the answers to these questions a way of life.
WHAT DOES IT TAKE
Redefining oneself is a project, a very long one at that. Most people enjoy rubrics when completing projects. It is an easy way to monitor the goal setting process and give a measurable value of progress. Unfortunately there is no rubric for a lifestyle, which is what a dapper gentleman is. To become a dapper gentleman, a choice has to be made to begin a life project that changes a lifestyle. But what is this mysterious dapper gentleman? What is the goal? A modern man embodying the principles of gentlemen of the past while pursuing the finest that manhood has to offer. To do this takes time and effort. This website will help push aspiring dapper gentlemen in the right direction by outlining three types of events they may find themselves at: casual, business casual, and formal. A new lifestyle awaits.